Those experiences and patterns of yours deserve consideration, they are real and they suck hard and chances are you don't give yourself enough compassion for them, but they also do not excuse you from acting like a human being and a grownup.
Just because life has dealt you shit doesn't mean you get to deal shit to others.
IMO, there are very, very few people I would dump in a "100% bad" or "100% good" category.
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Date: 2011-08-03 01:47 am (UTC)Those experiences and patterns of yours deserve consideration, they are real and they suck hard and chances are you don't give yourself enough compassion for them, but they also do not excuse you from acting like a human being and a grownup.
Just because life has dealt you shit doesn't mean you get to deal shit to others.
IMO, there are very, very few people I would dump in a "100% bad" or "100% good" category.